Friday, June 1, 2012

Kindergarten Graduation

(all pictures posted with permission)

There's a scripture that counsels all of us to "become as a little child." I used to think I knew what that meant, but I didn't. It wasn't until my teaching career began that I truly understood.  After the first month of the blood, sweat, and tears (literally) that came with starting my first year of teaching, I was able to refocus myself on the pure love and trust I felt from those 18 little sweeties through their 50 hugs and "I Love You's" every day. 





My kiddos graduated today (our last day of school)...

...and I sent them off into the world to be big first graders. When they look back, I'm positive they will remember certain things, such as:


ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN

All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand pile at school.
These are the things I learned:
  • Share everything.
  • Play fair.
  • Don't hit people.
  • Put things back where you found them.
  • Clean up your own mess.
  • Don't take things that aren't yours.
  • Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
  • Wash your hands before you eat.
  • Flush.
  • Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
  • Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
  • Take a nap every afternoon.
  • When you go out in the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.
  • Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: the roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
  • Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. So do we.
  • And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned - the biggest word of all - LOOK.
Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.
Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. Think what a better world it would be if we all - the whole world - had cookies and milk at about 3 o'clock in the afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had as a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.
And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out in the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.



Of course, considering the many things they learned in Kindergarten, I'm positive that I learned more from them about what it means to become as a "little child": They BEFRIEND without judgment, they APOLOGIZE when they've made a mistake, they ENJOY helping others succeed, they LAUGH more than they talk each day, they TRUST without questioning, they treat everyone as EQUAL, and they LOVE without hesitation.

(A note I found taped on the inside of my desk last week)
 ----from a little girl who comes from a sad situation at home, and thus had a hard time behaving this year, until she finally believed me when I kept telling the entire class as the bell rang everyday, "Remember, Mrs. Mohlman LOVES you!!" Once she knew I loved her unconditionally,and that she could trust me...she loved back, and hid this in my desk as a surprise for me. It remains there still and always will to remind me of that love every time I open my desk drawer.



When I look back on this year, I'll remember teaching them how to read and write, and solve simple addition problems:








...but mostly, I'll remember this:











(from a cute little guy who is repeating Kindergarten next year to learn his alphabet better)



 (Another note from the same sweet girl mentioned earlier).
After months of my repeating "Remember Mrs. Mohlmans Loves you!"... she wrote me this note, on our final day of school and switched the words around to now remind me that I am loved.



What a Year, what a year! I have learned a lot; about Teaching, about Love, and about 'Becoming as a Little Child."


After All... "ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW, I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN."

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Birthday Wishes

  What a wonderful 23rd Birthday!
 I can't believe I'm really 23; I still feel like I'm 19 :) Here's why it was so amazing:

I woke up to these beautifully wrapped packages from my mom,


which were filled with these special gifts: 
(I think it's safe to say that my mom knows me really well).




  

         
      'sunshine'

  
  'brother & sister'




Later that day, the school announced my Birthday on the announcements, and I felt just like a school girl again :) When lunch time came around, my coworkers surprised me with:

 
LOVE
THAT
 CARD!




While enjoying the rainbow cake in the Teachers' Lounge, I was called to the office where I saw 
this:

(Needless to say the huge fruit bouquet from my mom and dad was LOVED and enjoyed by the entire school staff that day).


After School, I opened this from the mail (an extra little gift from my dad)

And this from Jeff:



3 MONTH MASSAGE ENVY MEMBERSHIP! (I'm already feeling relaxed :)

And how could I forget the sweet card from my Aunt, and the cute ruffled green shirt and necklace from my dear in-laws? Thank you, Thank you!


And later that night, I went out to dinner with some lovely girls from my church. Jeff of course volunteered to take me out to celebrate, but considering his 7 hour (!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) test the next morning, I thought I'd let him study so we could celebrate my birthday and him finishing his 1st year of Med School  another day.

*All my Birthday wishes came true*

Sunday, May 13, 2012

MOM

 In church today, we got a cute Hershey's bar that they adapted just to Mothers (even though I'm not one yet, I still enjoyed the chocolate!).


 To make the day happier, Jeff got me a Mother's Day card and gift  (As he has always done). Can't tell you how much I love him!


 And then, there's the thing that makes me happiest on day's like today...my MOM. Did you know I was actually born on Mother's Day? (May 14th 1989). Considering the special, close, and wonderful relationship my sweet mommy and I have, I think it's very telling I was born on that day. Don't you? There seem to be many coincidences in this world, but I know that's not one.
Whenever I see anything beautiful, I immediately think of my mom...She has taught me to see the beauty in everything in the word, no matter how small.

My mom has taught me that Fairy Tales are real.

My Mom has taught me to be KIND (she is the kindest person I know).

My Mom has taught me to be have fun in life.

My mom always took time to talk to me. Even after midnight curfews, she'd still be waiting up to hear how my night went, and those were some of the most precious talks of my life.

She taught me to achieve my dreams.

She taught me about family.

She is loved by everyone because of what she does, what she stands for, and who she is. I love you mom (my best friend).